Hi.La.Ri.Ous.

This is from t-ball opening ceremonies : ) I will blog about that soon...Hudson is loving it. He and Micah both look waaaay too grown up in this pic. Just thought posts are better with pictures...

The boys had their Easter parties at school yesterday. For some reason, I hate on party days at school...does that make me a bad mom?? I think it's the mom guilt I get because of having to run back & forth from one room to another. I always feel like I should be in the other room : ( Oh well. Yesterday was awesome. And absolutely hilarious. When I got there, this is the conversation that Hudson's teacher relayed to me:

Context: They were sitting at the table eating lunch and one of the girls in Hudson's class was talking to him about marrying him one day. TOO FUNNY!

Hudson's response: "I can't listen to that right now. And you need to get that outta your head."

Bahahaha...everyone was cracking up about it. Her mom said that she hopes she takes his advice. I think it is hysterical. He told her to "get that outta your head". Wow. Where does this boy get this stuff from? Seriously. I think he gets that from his daddy : ) Lol. Later when we got home, I asked him to tell me what happened and he was SUPER embarassed and laughing in a shy kind of way. All I could do was laugh when he told me his response, and he just giggled. Priceless.

Lily Katherine Spivey

Meet our newest addition, Lily Katherine. We are so in love with her. Here are some pics from the hospital.

Matt and his DAUGHTER...we're still getting used to this.Look how bright eyed she was right after the delivery. Sweet girl.

"Before" pic...this is what nearly 8.5 lbs looks like...I need this for future reference : )

Lily and Mommy

Two excited big brothers.

Her first bow...many more to come : ) I can't believe her hair.

Her cheeks are so scrumptious. Reminds me of Micah.

Micah is so excited! He asks me daily to hold her and kiss her.

I am so overwhelmed by God's goodness in blessing us with her. I love her so so much already...I could just eat her up. Also, He answered so many prayers during the delivery...looking back, I can definitely see how He was in sweet control of the whole process. Here are a few ways that I see His hand in it:

• My doctor decided to induce 2 weeks early even though an ultrasound a week prior had estimated her weight to only be 6 lbs. 12 oz. It. Was. Wrong. And I beleive the Lord Himself gave my doctor wisdom as she was 8 lbs 5 oz. at 38 weeks.
• The day of, I was in serious labor before they ever started the pitocin. And I was in pain & worried about how the pitocin would change things. After laboring for 2 hrs (one without pit and one with), I decided it was time for my epidural. I was devastated because I thought I would deliver her at about 4 p.m. like I did both of my boys...so I was really disappointed in myself that I had to go ahead with my epidural. The Lord's hand was in this as well...it took about 30 minutes for them to get there and while in my room, TWO people came to get the anesthesiologist because they were short staffed...
• Just about 20 minutes after my epidural, she checked me and I was 8 cm!! So, it was almost time...If I had not gotten my epidural when I did, I wouldn't have gotten one. Praise God! Yeesh.
• I had to roll on my side for 30 minutes to wait on my doctor because he was in another delivery...If I hadn't had the epidural, I wouldn't have been able to wait. So, so thankful.
• Baby girl was born at 11:01 a.m. My quickest labor and by far my best delivery experience. God truly heard and answered my prayers.

So, thank you to all of you who prayed for me and Lily. We are doing great...I will update with more of her first two weeks home with us asap.

So In Love

Lily Katherine Spivey 8 lbs 5 oz. 21 inches

We are so in love with this sweet baby girl. She is perfect in our eyes. Thank you for your prayers...we are loving getting to know her. The delivery was perfect- could not have gone any more smoothly. Praising God for His kindness toward us. More to come on the birth story later!!

Baby Girl

I am at the hospital...it is in the middle of the night, and we are anxiously awaiting the arrival of this sweet baby girl today. I just wanted to put down a few thoughts before we actually meet her.

When I first found out that we were going to have a girl, I had so much anxiety. I was up most of the night that night worrying and then my emotions were a little all over the place the next day. I never ever thought we would have a girl. I just pictured all boys in my head. Don't get me wrong, I am VERY excited that the Lord decided to bless us with a girl. I just felt overwhelmed. I think the reason is because I think it will be harder to raise a little girl (I know that's not true). But all of a sudden, I was worrying about when she's 16 and wants to date boys, etc. etc. It all flooded at once : ) Thankfully, a sweet friend reminded me that when you bring home a newborn baby girl from the hospital, she is basically the same as a newborn baby boy, and that the Lord will teach me the rest. Such great advice. I can tend to let my mind and worrying get ahead of me- and the Lord. So, now we have known for several months that this new life inside of me is a little girl Spivey, and we are so excited. Here are a few things that I am excited about:

• The opportunity to watch Matt be a daddy to a little girl. I've always said that I thought he'd be a great dad for a little girl. He is stable. He is kind. He is patient. He will be a tremendous instrument in showing her the Love of her Heavenly Father. I can't wait to watch it.
• The fact that one day, when she's all grown up, she will be my friend. Boys don't always call their moms for advice...at some point, that stops for most. But girls with good relationships with their moms grow up to be their friend. I pray that God will foster that relationship for us.
• The opportunity to see Hudson and Micah be big brothers to a baby sister. My heart swells just thinking about it. Micah calls her baby "willie" because he can't say Lily. I LOVE it...it is so sweet to me. I know that she will be a well protected little girl.

I am overwhelmed at the Lord's kindness and goodness to us. Children are a blessing from His hand and I don't take that lightly. I cannot wait to see what He has in store for this baby girl.

So, sweet girl, this is for you. I pray that you will always know how much we love you. I pray that you will come to know the Lord at a young age- and that you never remember a day that you didn't walk with Him. I pray that you will be so rooted in his Love for you that you will be secure and stable in who He has made you to be.

Why?

Why is it that people feel the freedom to say WHATEVER THEY WANT when you're pregnant??? I mean, seriously. Here are a couple of recent conversations that I've had. Hope you enjoy.

Last night...AT Walmart:
Random man in motorized wheelchair blocks me in...
Man: "Young lady! How much longer do you have??"
Me: "Umm...I don't know. Maybe 2 weeks?"
Man: Shaking his head adamantly while staring at my belly, "No. No. You won't make it two weeks."
Me: Smiling the fake smile. Surely he knows he should move out of my way at this point. "Ok. I hope you're right. I'm ready."
Man: "If I was gettin' in an elevator with you right now, I'd be nervous."
Me: Speechless.
Man: "Is this your first?"
Me: "No. Third."
Man: "Know what you're having?"
Me: "A girl."
Man: "What are the others?"
Me: "Two boys." Wondering, 'How in the world is this conversation continuing??'
Man: "Well, I delivered several babies when I was in the military. And you're not gonna make it no two weeks. Me and my ex wife...we had 3 boys. Told us that third one was gonna be a girl and when my wife was delivering, the doc said 'uh-oh'. It was a boy. They went ahead and changed her status to surgical & got her tubes tied right then an there. Yep. Shore did. Insurance paid for it all."
Me: "Wow. Well, we'll see."
WHAT THE??? I mean, am I that enormous??? I can't handle the stares that come lat the end of pregnancy. Seriously. I think I'm gonna let the tears flow for the next person that says something...and maybe tell them I'm terrified to give birth. I don't know. I've gotta get back to the winning side of this game. The next two are out of the mouth of Hudson Spivey. Love him. He. Is. Hilarious.

On the way inside our house:
Hudson: "Mommy! Baby Lily's gettin' big!!"
Me: "Yep. She sure is." Under my breath, "I'm enormous.".
Hudson: "Mommy...you're not enormous. You're not. You're really not. Baby Lily's just gettin' big."

In the van about a week ago:
Hudson: "Hey, mommy."
Me: "Yeah?"
Hudson: "How is baby Lily gonna get out of your tummy??" "Is she gonna come out your MOUTH???"
Me: "Um, no buddy, she's not gonna come out of my mouth." Matt is losing it at this point- glad he thinks this is so hilarious... "When it's time for Lily to be born, God will get her out."
Hudson: "Yeah. But HOW?"
Me: "It's a miracle, buddy. A miracle." Ummm....how in the world do I answer that? I considered telling the truth. Seriously. That's where I'm at.
Hudson: "Mommy, Lily's gettin' big...and I think when she comes out your tummy, your tummy's gonna just be all big and floppy."
Me: Dumbfounded. "You are a smart boy, Hudson. You're absolutely right. My tummy is gonna be all big and floppy." "But, hey. When baby Lily comes out, could you not tell me that then, because it'll probably hurt mommy's feelings."
W.O.W. This conversation really happened. Seriously.

Ok, last one. This one happened at the boys' school last week.
Random mom: "Oh, wow. I thought it was time for you to have the baby already."
Me: "Nope. Haven't had her yet." Land of the OBVIOUS. Clearly, not yet.
What in the heck am I supposed to say to that??????? I mean, a) If I'm past my due date, then I don't want to hear that YOU, random lady, thought I would've had her by now. Clearly, I have not. and b) if I'm not past due, then that was a jerk-face thing to say. So, don't say it. Can you sense my frustration? Maybe I should just hibernate til baby girl makes her arrival. Maybe???

On a happy note, we are WAY excited to meet her. I can't believe all this pink in my house. I still don't know what I'm gonna do with a baby girl, but I'm very excited. I do plan to catch up a bit on how I'm feeling about a sweet girl, and a couple of birthdays that have happened in our house. Soon!

Our Christmas Traditions

I wanted to go ahead and document our Christmas Traditions while it is still fresh : ) I never really blogged about it last year...I think because I was afraid of some judgment because of the way we do things. So, anyways, don't judge me. I know that we celebrate differently than some of you...and I'm ok with that. Hoping you will be too!

First, we made the decision last year that Santa wasn't going to be a big part of our Christmas tradition. I just couldn't reconcile that Santa has nothing to do with Jesus' birth and all in all I don't want my boys to be confused about why Christmas is so exciting. I want them to talk to Jesus when they are in bed at night- because He hears them. I want them to pour out their heart to him. Sometimes when it's communicated that we don't "do" Santa, I feel like it sounds like we don't allow our children to have fun on Christmas, or that we don't celebrate, or that we don't give our children gifts. It makes me sad. I love Christmas. I love it, not because of Santa, but because it is a celebration of a long awaited Saviour. A Saviour that has radically changed my life...and that makes me very, very excited. It is wonderful, and magical. I can't fathom why He would do that for me. But I am oh so thankful. So, anyways, that is my reason. And this next paragraph is going to be for my boys...in hopes that one day they read this blog.

My sweet, precious boys. I love you so much, and I want you to know why we decided to celebrate Christmas in this particular way. We decided it because we love Jesus...and it is our hope that above anything else, one day you will love Him too. He is the Gift and the Giver, and I pray that you will love Him with your whole heart. I know that in your young years, you will miss out on some of the magic that is called Santa. And it is my heartfelt prayer that when you look back you don't feel that you missed out, but that you feel you gained a deep, deep appreciation for a Saviour and a joy that is rooted in His love. I pray that the way your daddy and I live our lives in front of you day-to-day points you to this Saviour all year long. I want you to know that we are not keeping the Santa tradition from you because we don't want you to have fun...I hope that you know that we gave you different Christmas traditions in the hopes that your joy would be grounded in what is real. Jesus is real. Christmas is wonderful and exciting and magical and glorious. I hope you feel it. I hope you take great joy in it. And I hope that after all the gift-giving, you will be men that have deeply thankful hearts for the gift of Jesus, and men that are generous and display a heart that knows that it is truly more blessed to give than to receive. I love you, Your Mommy.
Whoosh. Now I am crying. Here is a lighter version of some of the traditions we have.

On Christmas Eve this year, we let the day be all about giving. The boys made Christmas cards for their friends and I made cookies and we took them to deliver them. We talked about Saint Nicholas, that he was a real, merciful, generous person. He gave gifts. So, we let the boys give gifts to their friends. It was so fun. Matt and I had Starbucks...yum. Super fun. Then we continued a family tradition of Matt's and had Pizza for a Christmas Eve Dinner...Uncle Mark and Aunt Tina came over to join us.

The boys opened one gift- matching pajamas.I wrapped Christmas books and the week leading up to Christmas, the boys got to pick out a wrapped book each night and open it. They had a lot of fun with it.

Uncle Mark and Aunt Tina read their Christmas book on Christmas Eve. Then, we all loaded up and drove around looking at Christmas lights. The boys LOVED it!! Then we sprinkled some reindeer food on the front lawn (we let the boys pretend, they just know that we are pretending).

Christmas morning started off with presents. Our tradition is for the boys to get 3 presents each because that is what Jesus got on the day of His birth. It's fun. This year I worried that I wasn't getting them enough...thankfully, a friend reminded me that they are blessed and have plenty. Very true. Here is Micah opening his first present- a baseball helmet! Hudson really, really wanted a helmet, so we decided to get them both one.

Hudson was pumped.

They were a little too small. Woops. We had to exchange them. Boys with big heads.

Hudson opening his tent.

They both got Cars watches.

This is the leggo table that we got them. It was their big "together" gift. They love it.

All the boys in the tent : ) What a great dad.

And then the last book I had wrapped under the tree was the Bible. Matt read the Christmas story to us all. It was beautiful.

Later in the day I let the boys "help" me make birthday cupcakes for Jesus' birth. Then we sang Happy Birthday and enjoyed. This was so much fun for 2 little boys.

They got to decorate their cupcakes...and added crushed peppermint for a Christmas twist.

Hudson's creation.

Our last event of the day was to have a big Christmas meal- ham, dressing, green beans, etc., and we had a family over for dinner. All in all, it was awesome. We continued a family tradition of breakfast casserole for Christmas breakfast. Matt and I loved it...the boys didn't love the casserole. Oh well. I pray we have many, many more years together celebrating and making family traditions.

Oh, How I Do Love Fall

For all of our marriage, fall has been a super fun time and a sad time altogether. Usually Matt is up to his neck in basketball and then the time changes and it starts getting dark at 5:00...that equals hours that I need to entertain our kids AFTER dark. Well, after the job change this year, Matt was home more in the afternoons. Wow. Amazing. I didn't realize what I was missing.

Here are the boys carving our pumpkin with daddy.Ya think he's excited??
I think pumpkins are one of the main reasons I love fall!! I love all things pumpkin...homemade pumpkin soup is my favorite. Yum. But I also love pumpkin muffins, pumpkin spice coffee, etc. etc. etc. I love using all the yumminess after the carving for some homemade goodies.

We went to a halloween party at one of Hudson's friends' house. This is their best "mean" face!

Hudson was adamant about being a Pirate this year. So cute.

Our little small pirate. I could eat those cheeks.

Here are a couple of girls I've been hanging out with. They LOVED the hot chocolate at the Church 'Cars with Candy' event. Who am I kidding? So did I.

The boys enjoyed WAY too much candy. Micah didn't put any in his little pumpkin, he just walked around, played a game, and ate the piece he got. When he needed another piece, he played another game. Awesome.

Isn't this awesome?? I love Matt Spivey. A couple of years ago he was a pirate for VBS...so when the boys said they wanted to be Pirates, he was all for it. He dressed up too and took care of our game at the Cars with Candy event. Hilarious. Awesome. What a great dad. One day it won't be cool for him to dress up with the boys...until then, I'm sure he'll take full advantage : )